Show HN: Poppy – A simple app to stay intentional with relationships

I built Poppy as a side project to help people keep in touch more intentionally. Would love feedback on onboarding, reminders, and overall UX. Happy to answer questions.

poppy-connection-keeper.netlify.app

80 points

mahirhiro

5 hours ago


25 comments

jamilton 3 hours ago

Website looks nice. The copy being so painfully AI-written is a turnoff, enough that my first thought was "oh yeah, I remember hearing about this kind of app, I should look at the other one I'm thinking of". I do like that it's local and free.

Imported some contacts, doing quick setup, first contact, can't scroll down to confirm/finish setting them up. I'm on the SE, which is a slightly smaller screen, sometimes apps seem to have trouble with it, I assume they're assuming a larger screen.

  • nullbyte808 2 hours ago

    How do you know its AI? Who cares, sounds fine too me.

SeriousM 3 hours ago

I really appreciate this work. Yes, it's AI language and it seems it's not polished to run on every device -yet.

And it does one thing really good: be there. Sounds silly, I know, but an app that tries to make the world better AT NO COST is so much more than "well, I could vibe code that myself".

Thanks fellow creator of this app. Thanks for believing that this app may have an impact on the important part of our life: re/connecting people.

swaminarayan 2 hours ago

A lot of apps try to solve the “stay in touch with people” problem, but in my experience the novelty usually wears off after a while and the reminders start feeling like noise. Curious how you approached this in Poppy — did you design anything specifically to avoid reminder fatigue and make it sustainable long-term?

dvt 3 hours ago

"Poppy turns your contacts into a living garden. Gentle reminders, zero guilt."—bleh, at least write your own taglines :/

This is a neat idea that has been tried about 300 times over, but since it's contingent on already being cognizant of keeping up with relationships, people that install it aren't going to people that need to be using it.

  • wincy 2 hours ago

    I mean, I’m a pretty ADHD guy, very in the moment, and although I sporadically invite friends or old colleagues to catch up for lunch, I mean to do it regularly, but I might forget to invite them for years at a time, so this might be good for me. I could really used an “Anki for lunch”, spaced repetition reminders for people in my Rolodex, as it were.

    • opto 2 hours ago

      You just need a tickler file.

jonners00 3 hours ago

This is great, but also not well suited (in terms of visuals, name, language) to some of the audiences that need it most. A version that resonates more with middle aged men would be great. Oak or something.

marvin-hansen an hour ago

Totally love this app. I've always struggled with fostering relationships over time and keeping track of all the little things different people value. I actually tried a friend journal a week ago but that didn't worked as planned either. Once I installed this app, I pinged some folks, had a great unexpected call and now my garden is growing. I value the privacy & local first paradigm. I would have not installed a cloud SaaS app or hidden subscription. However I'm okay with paying a reasonable one time fee for an upgraded version. I did paid for IA Writer on Mac and iphone because their product is exactly right. Your app is similar in the sense that it solves one particular problem for one specific group of people really well. Therefore please consider a paid version at some point.

mekaoro 19 minutes ago

Love the idea! Contrary to the comments i have seen this first time, just the website copy is AI generated hence it feels off.

togido an hour ago

Hey it’s an amazing app. I was trying to make an app where user can send notifications to friends when they think about them. I think it would be a great additional feature to your app! Reach me if you want to talk about it

HaloZero 3 hours ago

I love this! It’s a fantastic little free app. Any reason you don’t open source it? I’d love to help fix some bugs that I encounter.

MagicMoonlight 30 minutes ago

You definitely slopcoded this entire thing, including all the text. It ha that weird AI tone to it.

bahador 3 hours ago

Is this a CRM for your friends? FRM? FriendsForce?

dddddaviddddd 3 hours ago

It would be nice if the homepage loaded more gracefully with Javascript disabled -- as it is, it's completely blank without JS.

adi2907 3 hours ago

This is definitely very useful, and something i've been thinking of to build myself. A personal CRM. Issue is when I see something like this - where it will take me around half hour to figure out - while i can vibe code something in an hour which will do much more and personalize it for me, I hold back on trying it out.

seism 3 hours ago

Beautiful. I am a little worried that you’ll soon lose interest and stop supporting the app without a business model. Do you plan to at least get sponsored, e.g. by some kind of foundation, like ones that are behind mental health initiatives?

downboots 2 hours ago

Duolingo for relationships. The word engagement is hot lately.

paulhebert 4 hours ago

This looks lovely! I've been meaning to do a better job of calling friends and family. I'll try it out!

zlies 3 hours ago

Nice Idea! I noticed a bug during contact import. The month of birthdays are shifted -1 :)

kingkawn 2 hours ago

AI writing = nobody will read it. The lure of easy perfection is death to meaningful interaction.